4th sign of the zodiac
home & hearth
ruler: Moon
feminine
water
cardinal
summer
metal: silver
color: white
gem: pearl
flowers: white roses, gardenias, white lilies, other white flowers
body: breasts, belly
adornments: lariat necklaces, breast chains, belly chains, pasties, bra & panties sets, bikinis, crop tops
tarot cards:
Chariot
Queen of Cups
key words/phrases/essence:
As the sign of rulership for the Moon, Cancer is deeply linked to the Sacred Feminine. She is home, hearth, family, deep heart’s desire, emotional fulfillment, sanctuary, safety, nesting, comfort, softness, cuddling, snuggling, rest, relaxation, nourishment, sweetness, affection, warmth, kisses, sensitivity. She is cozy, sentimental, intuitive & nurturing. She rules women, particularly mothers & grandmothers.
When it’s cold outside, she wants to cuddle on the couch under a soft blanket with a warm glass of cocoa in front of the fire with the ones she loves.
She can be quirky, complex, inflexible, moody & defensive, pulling inwards to protect herself when she feels threatened, but at her highest, She embodies home & home is sacred.
ideas for cancer moon rituals:
Since Cancer is closely connected to Vesta, the goddess of the sacred hearth fire, do a ritual to honor Vesta by lighting a sacred fire & reading out loud her mythology.
Cancer loves pearls & necklaces with charms representing what her heart most cherishes. Think about what you most cherish in the world. Purchase a charm necklace & wear it over your heart, between your breasts, understanding as a woman the immense value & power of your Sacred Feminine influence to nurture, warm & care for yourself & those you love in the sanctity of your home.
As Cancer rules the breasts & belly, deeply honor these feminine areas with massage. Rose essential oil is perfect for this, as it is all about the heart, deep love & the feminine.
Indulge in a lovely feminine white bra & pantie set that beautifully displays your breasts & belly.
In warm weather, wear a white or silver bikini or a white crop top or hoodie with a pair of white shorts that show your breasts & belly in all their feminine sexiness.
In cold weather, put on super soft white cotton pjs & comfy socks. Snuggle by a warm fire with a yummy cup of hot chocolate or whatever beverage makes you feel most nurtured.
Honor your home & those who mean the most to you. Make it beautiful, cozy & comfortable.
Cook yourself some healthy & nourishing comfort food - your very favorite!
Whether by yourself or with other women, dress in beautiful flowing feminine white or silver garments which fully embody the essence of the Moon. Feel & channel the purity & intensity of Her in rulership. Allow it to flow through you into the present moment.
Adorn your altar with an abundance of white roses or other white flowers, white candles, silver & pearls.
Write a list of your heart’s truest desires. If in the company of other women, share them. Do a ritual in which you hold these deeply held wishes in your loving hands, surrounding them with sacred white light. Imagine yourself as an open cup overflowing with the light & love of the Sacred Feminine. Then place the list on the altar with a blessing for fulfillment.
Some say the Moon is the most powerful planet for manifestation. Of all the planets, including the very powerful Sun, true happiness & emotional fulfillment comes from honoring the deepest desires of the Moon.
cancer vibes:
“& tonight I fall asleep with you in my heart.”
“Home sweet home.”
“I love you to the moon & back.”
“Home is where the heart is.”
“With you, I am home.”
“This morning, with her, having coffee.”
- Johnny Cash, when asked his description of paradise.
“Dear Diamond, We all know who is really a girl’s best friend. Yours sincerely, Chocolate Cake.”
famous cancer muses:
Jane Russell, Debra Harry,
Meryl Streep, Angelica Huston,
Princess Diana, Sofia Vergara,
Diane Kruger, Liv Tyler,
Lana Parrilla, Kristin Bell,
Serinda Swan, Lea Seydoux,
Margot Robbie